Friday, December 31, 2010

The Seventh Day of Christmas

O Morning Star, how fair and bright thou beamest forth in truth and light,
O Sovereign meek and lowly!
Thou Root of Jesse, David's Son, My Lord and Master,
thou hast won my heart to serve thee solely!
Thou art holy, fair and glorious, all victorious, rich in blessing, rule and might o'er all possessing.

Thou heavenly Brightness! Light divine! O deep within my heart now shine,
and make thee there an altar! Fill me with joy and strength to be thy member,
ever joined to thee in love that cannot falter; toward thee longing doth possess me;
turn and bless me; here in sadness eye and hear long for they gladness!

What joy to know, when life is past, the Lord we love is first and last, the end and the beginning! He will one day, O glorious grace, transport us to that happy place beyond all tears and sinning!
Amen! Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
Crown of gladness, we are yearning for the day of your returning.
Philipp Nicolai, 1599

Thursday, December 30, 2010

The Sixth Day of Christmas


There's a song in the air! There's a star in the sky!
There's a mother's deep prayer and a baby's low cry!
And the star rains its fire while the beautiful sing,
for the manger of Bethlehem cradles a King!

There's a tumult of joy o'er the wonderful birth,
for the virgin's sweet boy is the Lord of the earth,
Ay! the star rains its fire while the beautiful sing,
for the manger of Bethlehem cradles a King!

In the light of that star lie the angles impearled,
and that song from a far has swept over the world,
Every hearth is aflame, and the beautiful sing,
in the homes of the nations that Jesus is King!

We rejoice in the light, and we echo the song
that comes down through the night from the heavenly throng.
Ay! we shout to the lovely evangel they bring,
and we greet in his cradle our Savior and King!

Josiah G. Holland, 1874

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

The Fifth Day of Christmas



Go tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere;
Go, tell it on the mountain, that Jesus Christ is born!

While shepherds kept their watch o'er silent flocks by night,
behold throughout the heavens there shone a holy light.

Go tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere;
Go, tell it on the mountain, that Jesus Christ is born!

The shepherds feared and trembled, when lo! above the earth,
rang out the angel chorus that hailed the Savior's birth.

Go tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere;
Go, tell it on the mountain, that Jesus Christ is born!

Down in a lowly manger the humble Christ was born,
and God sent us salvation that blessed Christmas morn.

Go tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere;
Go, tell it on the mountain, that Jesus Christ is born!

Afro-American Spiritual

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

The Fourth Day of Christmas

Books and coloring beckon after a busy day snow tubing on no less than three hills.
And Sarah found a comfy spot to make sure no one disturbs Grandpop!

Monday, December 27, 2010

The Third Day of Christmas


Joy to the world, the Lord is come! Let earth receive her king;
Let every heart prepare him room, and heaven and nature sing,
And heaven and nature sing, and heaven, and heaven and nature sing.

Joy to the world, the Savior reigns! Let all their songs employ;
While fields and floods, rocks, hills, and plains repeat the sounding joy,
Repeat the sounding joy, repeat, repeat the sounding joy.

No more let sin and sorrows grow, nor thorns infest the ground;
he comes to make his blessings flow far as the curse is found,
far as the curse is found, far as, far as the curse is found.

He rules the world with truth and grace, and makes the nations prove
the glories of his righteousness, and wonders of his love,
and wonders of his love, and wonders, wonders of his love.

Issac Watts, 1719

Sunday, December 26, 2010

The Second Day of Christmas

with just a few hours before the big blizzard arrived, we got down to the pond and got our skates on! Luke likes falling just as much as he did last winter, but he's got more hankering for hockey!
Sarah getting her game face on!
And there he is....debating the merits of snowblowing the ice again....only time will tell.

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas!

Love came down at Christmas, Love all lovely, Love divine;
Love was born at Christmas; star and angels gave the sign.

Worship we the Godhead, Love incarnate, Love divine;
Worship we our Jesus, but wherewith for sacred sign?

Love shall be our token; love be yours and love be mine;
Love to God and neighbor, love for pea and gift and sign.

Christina G. Rossetti

Friday, December 24, 2010

Christmas Eve



Adestes fideles, laetri triumphantes;
venite, venite in Bethlehem.
Natum videte Regem angelorum,
Venite adoremus, venite adoremus,
venite adoremus, Dominum

O come, all ye faithful, joyful and triumphant
O come ye, O come ye, to Bethlehem.
Come and behold him, born the king of angels,
O come let us adore him, O come, let us adore hum,
O come, let us adore hum, Christ the Lord!

True God of true God, Light from Light Eternal,
Lo, he shuns not the Virgin's womb,
Son of the Father, begotten, not created,
O come let us adore him, O come, let us adore hum,
O come, let us adore hum, Christ the Lord!

Sing, choirs of angels, sing in exhultation;
O sing, all ye citizens of heaven above!
Glory to God, all glory in the highest;
O come let us adore him, O come, let us adore hum,
O come, let us adore hum, Christ the Lord!

See how the shepherds, summoned to his cradle,
leaving their flocks, draw nigh to gaze;
we too will tither bend our joyful footsteps
O come let us adore him, O come, let us adore hum,
O come, let us adore hum, Christ the Lord!

Child, for us sinners poor and in the manger,
we would embrace thee with love and awe.
Who would not love thee, loving us so dearly,
O come let us adore him, O come, let us adore hum,
O come, let us adore hum, Christ the Lord!

Yea, Lord, we greet thee, born this happy morning,
Jesus, to thee be all glory given.
Word of the Father, now in flesh appearing:
O come let us adore him, O come, let us adore hum,
O come, let us adore hum, Christ the Lord!

Silent night, holy night, all is calm, all is bright
Round yon virgin mother and child,
Holy infant so tender and mild, sleep in heavenly peace
Sleep in heavenly peace

Silent night, holy night, wondrous star, lend thy light,
with the angels sing, alleluia to our King
Christ the Savior is born, Christ the Savior is born

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Happy Christmas Eve Eve!

I found the pickle on the Christmas Tree! Whooohooo!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Let sleeping dogs lie


Really, I'm just jealous that Jake has settled in for his long winter's nap already.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

A little looney perhaps.....

Yes, I set my alarm for 1AM to see the lunar eclipse. It was gorgeous as the ground flooded in moonlight went from bright to dark and the once invisible stars came popping out of the night sky as the earth's shadow gradually slipped across the face of the moon. My best photo on my simple point and shoot camera was taken about 2:30....after that it got steadily darker and more difficult to capture with any recognition through the viewfinder. I stayed up to see the last sliver of the moon be completely eclipsed and then I collapsed. Today might have its moments of struggles, but it was totally worth it!


Monday, December 20, 2010

It's not tattooed on the back of my neck!

It appears there is a war on Christmas and it is fought on many fronts and has new tactics each year. Someone told me the war on Christmas began when some retail chains decided to their policy of no solicitation and wouldn't let charities do their annual fund drive outside their stores. Others report that the war on Christmas happened when some companies decided to have holiday sales rather than Christmas sales in December. And I've even heard the war on Christmas is because some merchants won't wish their customers a "Merry Christmas" during the month of December. This last battle is being fought down in Texas by a large church that is placing offensive merchants on a 'naughty' list while placing stores who say "Merry Christmas" to their customers on the 'nice' list. I think I know many Christians who cringe at this response and just want to say, "Jesus needs better PR!".

I guess I am just oblivious - or I was taken as an early prisoner when I was a kid. I grew up in Central suburban New Jersey. Since childhood, I've had Yom Kippar and Rosh Hashanah off from public school along with Easter and Christmas. In grade school, we traced oak-tag patterns to cut Christmas stockings and Chanukah dreidels out of construction paper to decorate the classroom. Santa Claus came to our school and handed out candy canes to EVERYONE, even the Jewish kids! (It was our Jehovah's Witness classmates that were sent on 'errands' out of the classroom and down the hall shortly before Santa made his appearance so they wouldn't violate their church doctrine about celebrations).
In the neighboring town of Dunellen, huge wooden figures and the words "Season's Greetings" were spelled out on the town's green. In the early days of December, it was with torturous anticipation that Jim and I would beg Mom or Dad to make a detour to see if the festive elves, candy canes and Santa's sleigh was on display yet. (And until I was an Auntie, I never realized how much the driver was looking forward to seeing how much of the town was decorated).
Well, I made a major detour today to see what was on Dunellen's town square. I was disappointed to find out that the giant red wooden signs that spelled out "Season's Greetings" I remember from childhood are no longer a part of the decor....BUT I was thrilled to see that all of the parking meters in town are covered with little plastic baggies to let shoppers park for free as they shop downtown. And it wasn't because I had some shopping to do. It's because I have absolutely no problem when a merchant says to me "Have a nice holiday" as I leave their store. How is the merchant supposed to know I am a Christian and am doing my Christmas shopping? Despite what a classic Monty Python's sketch infers, my religious affiliation is not tattooed on the back of my neck. Since my brief interaction with a salesclerk is not likely to illicit a protracted conversation about what holiday I'm celebrating this month, I am not faulting the cashier or the company they work for because I am offered a generic holiday greeting that has been used since greeting cards came into style.

Don't get me wrong, I do like being wished a "Merry Christmas". And when that greeting comes from a person working in a church's gift shop or is offered by the clerk in a Christian bookstore I try to return it with as much warmth and meaning as I did when I exchanged greetings with the cashier in the secular store - because I hope we all enjoy a wonderful time celebrating time with family and friends. But when I am wished a "Merry Christmas" by the clerks who I purchase from all year long, persons with whom my purchase is more than just a random momentary encounter, "Merry Christmas" takes on a special quality, because hopefully what they know is that I am a Christian - and not because they know it is tattooed on the back of my neck - but by the person and witness to Christ I've been all year long. After all, doesn't that little song say "And they will know we are Christians by our love"?

Sunday, December 19, 2010

The wait is almost over

It's the fourth Sunday of Advent and the waiting is almost over. All four candles of Advent are lit. We wait to light the Christ candle on Christmas Eve to proclaim his birth!

I have been rigorous during the Advent hymn study to stay with Advent themes and songs. But this evening, for the fourth and final Sunday of Advent, I let up a bit on being the Advent police and allowed the group the chance to examine a Christmas carol. I chose "Hark! the Herald Angels Sing" for a variety of reasons. First and foremost, it was written by Charles Wesley and I lead the study at a United Methodist Church. Somehow, I find it a little hard to ignore one of the most popular Christmas hymns in Christendom that is penned by the brother of the guy who helped gather "the people who are called Methodist". Second good reason for the selection is the fact that there is some great theology in the carol. Thirdly, I like the fact that the 'herald angels' are the ones who go out and proclaim this incredible event that happened. They are bringing the good news of this birth to the rest of the world. Without the angels appearing to the shepherds and bringing them tidings of great joy to tell them what happened over in Bethlehem, David's city, (Luke 2:8-14) the event would have slipped by unawares except for some Magi who arrive a week and a half later (Matthew 2:1-12).

Another reason why I chose this hymn is that it does not take us to the stable, manger or cave in which Jesus is reported to have been born. Sure, the iconic image of the humble stable in Bethlehem are conjured up with the first verse, but the focus of the hymn is Jesus. We see all sorts of names for Jesus; a King, Christ, Lord, incarnate diety, Emmanuel or "God is with us", Prince of Peace and Son of Righteousness. And so it is with Christmas, all sorts of ways that celebrate that something special happened in that little city of Bethlehem. And so it will be this week as we continue to get ready to celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas.


Hark! the herald angels sing, “Glory to the newborn King;
peace on earth, and mercy mild, God and sinners reconciled!”
Joyful, all ye nations rise, join the triumph of the skies;
with th’ angelic host proclaim, “Christ is born in Bethlehem!”

Christ, by highest heaven adored; Christ, the everlasting Lord;
late in time behold him come, offspring of a virgin’s womb,
Veiled in flesh his Godhead see; hail th’ incarnate Deity
pleased with us in flesh to dwell, Jesus, our Emmanuel.

Hail the heaven born Prince of Peace! Hail the Son of Righteousness!
Light and life to all he brings, risen with healing in his wings.
Mild he lay his glory by, born that we no more may die,
born to raise us from the earth, born to give us second birth.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Soup's On!

Tomorrow night is the last night for the Advent Hymn study and I need to get a pot of soup ready. I am planning my favorite bean and sausage soup. Earlier in the day I soaked a bag of navy beans in boiling water for 5 minutes and then let them cool to room temperature. This evening I transferred them to a crock pot with a large box of chicken soup stock. And I added a bunch of carrots slices.
Then I added a minced onion, 2 cloves of garlic and a healthy amount of kielbasa till I decided I had enough that could feed 8-10 people for class tomorrow night. At that point it looked like I needed more stock.
So I added another box.
A few sprinkles of oregano and a dash of basil before stirring, putting the lid on the crock pot and setting the whole operation into cook down mode on the lowest setting overnight. Tomorrow I'll puree a 2 cups of the chunky stuff and stir it back into the soup. A loaf of pumpernickel bread from the local bakery and things should be ready for a hearty meal to feed the body while we examine "Hark the Herald Angel Sings" to feed our spirit and soul.

Friday, December 17, 2010

Hallelujah!

Over the last three years, Bill Wallace has nurtured a dream. Attending the Winter Concert at our alma mater, Piscataway High School, during his daughter's years here, he has longed to sing the Hallelujah Chorus as an alumnus (as we did back in the day). Tonight, in his daughter's Senior year, that dream was realized. Last winter, he spearheaded a campaign to "Bring Back the Hallelujah Chorus" to Piscataway. In the year long process he underwent to garner support from alumni to come back and sing, he did more than restore Handel's piece to the Winter Concert. He renewed old friendships, made new connections and helped many of us who are products of Piscataway's music program recall a very special memory from our youth. Even though there are only a half dozen of us pictured above, there were close to 2 dozen alumni from across the span of time who joined the Concert Choir for their final numbers, "Still, Still, Still" (its the newest alumni piece) and the "Hallelujah Chorus". From the looks of it on Facebook, there were a number who are geographically challenged but were singing with us in spirit. The students did a great job throughout the evening and singing Handel for the first time, but it was especially gratifying to hear how impressed they were by the alumni voices who helped bring the concert to a satisfying finish.
And in good form we went out to celebrate the fact that we pulled it off! We let Bill and a few others take time to be with their families, but Duane Hand was happy to be the rooster in the hen house (we were joined by his wife and their photographer daughter Skylar) as we spent the rest of the evening remembering past choir directors, plays, performances, and other shenanigans of our youth. Thanks, Bill, for putting this evening together and all the memories associated with it!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Making my list and checking it twice

My Auntie Nance would say I am "getting my ducks in their rows". I worked for a pastor who talked about "having a game plan". Regardless of what idiom you like to use to express being organized and knowing how things are going to come together, I have my list done...now just to dot the i's and cross the t's. (and no peeking in the candy cane notebook or the tree shaped paper - those lists are highly confidential till Christmas morning!)

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Traveling Beverage!

I am ready to return north and thanks to the inspiration of a high school classmate, Sue, I decided the perfect traveling beverage would be a Rt. 44 diet cranberry limeade from Sonic. Traveling beverages are what Alicia called the drinks that fortified you for road trips. I used to go to Sonic back in seminary in Kentucky where all the people from the Midwest like Nancy and John helped me figure out that my favorite was a diet cherry limeade. New Jersey only just got a few recently and I haven't had a Rt. 44 drink since maybe last year when I was in Texas when Tina (from Ohio) and I decided to stall for time before surprising Alicia for her birthday. I came to this sonic north of Richmond with a classmate, Elizabeth last year some time. So, when Sue mentioned last week that she tried the cranberry limeade, I decided that it was worth a try being December and all. This is the very first solo Sonic run I've made though I felt a little loss for the company of friends riding with me I was glad to be able to chat to a few on the phone on my ride back to Jersey. Having a traveling beverage like a Rt. 44 is helpful on the return stretch of a boomerang ride like this one.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Boomerang Road Trip



I have a meeting in Richmond, VA tomorrow morning so I saw the sunset in Delaware late this afternoon. I got some really fun video of Cindy Lee's cat playing fetch, but Blogger is not being cooperative in uploading it. Trust me, it was highly entertaining!



Monday, December 13, 2010

Revelations of a High School Orchestra Alumna*

You might be a fan of the television show Glee and/or watched High School Musical with your kids, but how many of you were members of your high school orchestra? Yes, I said 'orchestra', and by orchestra I mean the red headed step child of most school musical programs. How many of you played a stringed instrument (guitars don't count - I'm talking about instruments that were played with bows) the majority of your school career and were rewarded with complete anonymity because you never marched during half time or had your face and voice star in the school play? Well, obviously, from the picture above, I was a member of the Piscataway High School orchestra and I'll have you know I played both the violin and viola during my tenure there. Thanks to my dad the PHS orchestra took one of its first step out of anonymity when I became the first and only member of the orchestra in the early 1980s to have a stadium jacket proclaiming my membership! Truth be told, I was more than a little embarrassed at the time but since it was the warmest coat I owned and I had to walk between the old and new buildings of the high school to attend my classes it saw its use and wear during my high school years. And probably due the huge number of Piscataway Superchiefs (band members) sporting coats for the drum line or the flag team, my coat stayed relatively obscure.
I dug my coat out of storage last week in anticipation of this evening. I'll be singing with the PHS Concert Choir in rehearsal for the upcoming Winter Holiday Concert this Friday. This year, the choir will be resurrecting the Hallelujah Chorus from Handel's Messiah. One of my high school classmates, Bill Wallace, was dismayed to attend his daughter's choir concerts the past three years at our alma mater and not be invited to come sing the Hallelujah Chorus as an alumnus. It was standard fare back in the day (and up until recent years) that alumni would be invited to come participate in a few traditional numbers. I say alumni could participate because orchestra AND choir members returned to the stage to perform a few select carols and the Hallelujah Chorus. It seems the change in program occurred a few years back when the concert stretched to more than 2.5 hours long and it was decided to create multiple winter concerts for the wide variety of musical talent at PHS which now boasts two orchestras! (I am just curious to know how many of them have stadium jackets!?!) And somewhere in the split, the Hallelujah Chorus disappeared from the program.
So, after last year's concert, Bill launched a campaign to garner support from alumni to bring back the Hallelujah Chorus. While I support his endeavor, I am not totally shocked Bill and many of my CC (Concert Choir) classmates don't remember that after the orchestra had preformed its bit for the evening, we waited in the room adjoining the stage so our instruments could stay somewhat warm and in tune for the final numbers of the concert. Then, soon after the CC began their performance on risers in front of the stage, we orchestra members had to creep silently and carefully back onto the stage in the dark with our instruments and music in hand so we could be seated and in place for when the alumni received their invitation to come down front to join in the program. At that point, the curtain parted to reveal the orchestra on stage and the choir did a little shuffle to accommodate arriving alumni and allow a space so the choir director (Mr. Murphy during my first years of high school and Miss Collins my final years) could see Mr. Bradshaw, the orchestra director who was the one who brought us into position so we could be the string accompaniment to a selection of carols and the Hallelujah Chorus. Little wonder that even the high school orchestra alumni members went unnoticed - if we attended the concert and planned to preform, we had to report to the same backstage area as students, tune our instruments and creep onto stage with the rest of the orchestra as well. No fanfare for returning alumni in the orchestra, just low key tune-ups and the grateful thanks of Mr. Bradshaw and Mrs. Ish (the string coordinator for the middle and elementary schools) for keeping our fingers nimble and ready to play.
Tonight I'm wearing my high school orchestra jacket this evening to 'represent' the orchestra of my youth. I won't be playing my violin though. Even though the fingers of my left hand automatically start bouncing when I hear the first strains of the Hallelujah Chorus, my instrument hasn't seen the light of day since before I attended seminary. And it was the mid 1980s the last time I actually played the Hallelujah Chorus on a stringed instrument. But over the last fifteen years, I've participated in a variety of Messiah concerts and am very familiar with the alto part of the Hallelujah Chorus. Seems that's granted me 'special dispensation' from the present choral director to come sing with other alumni members at rehearsal for this weekend's concert. No saying how much attention the coat will garner since I don't plan to actually wear it while I sing, but I'll know its there and that little part of my violin/viola playing heart will be playing in perfect tune and tempo with the golden haired children of the Concert Choir.

* Thanks to Mr. Moffitt's Latin class (and a little brush up in classical languages during seminary) I know the proper declensions of alumnus, alumni, aluma and alumnae.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Just what are we waiting for?

Traditionally, on the third Sunday in Advent, the pink candle, or the "Mary" Candle is lit. I've been hosting an Advent hymn study each Sunday evening this season at Sergeanstville UMC. In the center of our dinner table (we enjoy a mug of soup with our study) is this Advent wreath that I've lugged from Kentucky to Virginia to New Jersey without ever lighting the square pillar candles in the five years I've owned it. This year, I decided, it was finally time to light them.

What was I waiting for all these years by not lighting them? I don't really know exactly. I like the candles and that is precisely why I bought them when I saw them (besides the fact I knew they would go with a wreath and some decorations I already possessed). Maybe I never lit them the last couple of years because during the rush and crush of the end of the fall semester I wasn't interested in lighting one candle one week without being able to follow through and light the rest that Advent season. Maybe I didn't want to waste the candles on just me alone to enjoy them. Maybe I didn't want to burn them and then not have them in pristine condition for the next year. For whatever reasons I've subconsciously harbored the past five years, this is the year that I decided that they should be lit - and it's bonus points to be able to enjoy them with a small group of people each Sunday evening as we discuss Advent hymns and consider what it is that we are expecting at the start of the church year as we anticipate the arrival of the Christ child in the nativity at Christmas.

This evening we examined "Hail to the Lord's Anointed" written by James Montgomery in 1821. Granted, its a little more obscure than the last two we discussed (Come, Thou Long Expected Jesus and O Come, O Come Emmanuel). And the reason that might be (I am totally guessing here) is that this hymn really focuses on the other Advent we expect and wait for - the second and final triumphant coming of Christ. This hymn makes no reference to the birth of Jesus and does not really conjure up Christmas like visions of sugar plums or even idyllic pageants with kids wearing robes and cloaks pretending to be characters in the Nativity scene. Montgomery's hymn goes straight to the heart of what Christians believe Jesus will do when he comes again - bring mercy, end strife, break oppression and let peace reign throughout all creation. And though those ideas are linked to the baby born in Bethlehem, mostly we project them more on the man that baby eventually came and the ministry he inaugurated. In his hymn, Montgomery invites us to look past Bethlehem, look past Galilee, look past Jerusalem, look past even the passion, death and resurrection of Christ to the time when he comes again...when sorrow and sadness are no more. This hymn in my opinion - and admittedly its one I've barely ever sung in my lifetime - picks up the themes that are latent in our other Advent hymns and Christmas carols: there are really, really, really good things coming, things like joy to the world, peace on earth, and good will among all people. But now, in the meantime, we aren't simply stuck in the darkness on our own waiting for Christ to come rescue us. Advent candles remind us the light of God already shines in our lives and when we share it with others we know a little of that joy, peace and good will. Right now we only know it in glimpses and in part. And one day we will know it totally and for all eternity.

Hail to the Lord’s Anointed, great David’s greater Son!
Hail in the time appointed, his reign on earth begun!
He comes to break oppression, to set the captives free;
to take away transgression, and rule in equity.

He comes with succor speedy to those who suffer wrong;
to help the poor and needy, and bid the weak be strong;
to give them songs for sighing, their darkness turn to light,
whose souls, condemned and dying, are precious in his sight.

He shall come down like showers upon the fruitful earth;
love, joy, and hope, like flowers, spring in his path to birth.
Before him, on the mountains, shall peace, the herald, go,
and righteousness, in fountains, from hill to valley flow.

To him shall prayer unceasing and daily vows ascend;
his kingdom still increasing, a kingdom without end.
The tide of time shall never his covenant remove;
his name shall stand forever, that name to us is love.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

And now for something completely different

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Friday, December 10, 2010

Tis the Season

for eggnog ice cream! The only way it could be better than this is to live in Ohio and have Graeter's egg nog ice cream freshly churned in the french pot paddle cream process done 2 gallons at a time. But that option is not feasible right now (and if you know anything about current events in Kentucky, you know that Graeter's ice cream parlors closed statewide about two weeks ago). I've never been forced to ship Graeter's to my locale here on the East Coast - I prefer to go to a parlor with friends when I visit the western edge of the time zone. So, when in Jersey in the month of December, I am happy with the option Turkey Hill provides. It's creamy and tastes better than the liquid variety - homemade or even some commercial varieties available in the diary section. It's not Graeter's - but then, nothing else really is.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Winter's Fury: The Nordic Beast

You've heard of the Winter Warlock? The Yeti? The Abominable Snowman? The Bumble Monster? Well, meet the worst of them all - the Nordic Track. This monster is one you can't run from because you have to be moving to propel it. I was too tired to get up this morning and face the Nordic Beast out in the garage, but I did manage to tame it this evening when I got home. Sometimes I wish you could just dial the odometer to the day's goal and call it quits, but it doesn't work like that. This evening I did 5K in 1.5K intervals broken up with weights in between and a 0.5K cool down. At least with the Nordic Track, I have a book holder so I can read fiction and while the skis rack up the distance while I complete the workout.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Evening's fuel

I still have plenty of work in front of me before I call it quits for the night. Yet, I am doing a happy dance because it is December and that means I get to enjoy a seasonal favorite - a cup of Comfort and Joy Tea. I have been sticking to my no sweetener rule successfully since May, but I might just cave with this tea. I think the sugar helps enhance the flavored holiday spices. Or I just might be craving candy and looking for a sugar rush to help get the paperwork done.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Evenings like this

make me glad that I live at The Homestead during this season of my life. I spent the day shivering in an erratically heated building with a bunch of other Methodist clergy (hmmm, I suppose that means you might say the building was strangely warmed!). So it was wonderful to return to The Homestead and find a fire in the fireplace. I think flannel pjs and a cup of hot cocoa are on the agenda to accompany the annual viewing of "A Charlie Brown Christmas" on television this evening.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Meat for the Freezer

This morning, my brother once again proved he is a good shot and brought a deer home on the first day of the season for the umpteenth time in his life. I realize this post might be a surprise to some of you who have only known me for the last half dozen years or so. But no doubt, if you are a longtime friend of the family or family member, Jim's marksmanship comes as no surprise. However, it was a slight surprise that I got the phone call a little after 9AM from Dad saying they were headed out of the woods, and I won't say I wasn't a bit relieved. As good a shot as Jim is, it's not like you can always expect to get a deer early in the season or even before lunch on Opening Day. And since Jim only ever takes one day off from work, on the opening day, to go hunting, this is the best time to bring one home. Now his afternoons and weekends aren't so pressured to go out to the woods and 'get some meat for the freezer' as our Nana would say.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Advent - waiting for what is to come

This evening I am leading an Advent hymn study on "O Come, O Come Emmanuel", a traditional carol that has been a part of Christian hymnody since the 9th century. Last week we studied "Come, Thou Long Expected Jesus" written some 250 years ago by Charles Wesley. It's no mistake that these two hymns begin with the word 'come' because Advent means "to come". Most Advent hymns revolve around the theme of waiting and preparing and being expectant about what is coming. Christmas is coming. It isn't here yet. I hate to break it to you folks, but regardless of what the merchandisers tell you and the cacophony of Christmas carols and songs on the radio, Christmas has not come yet. But it will be here soon - it's just not now - it's still coming!

And what is coming is so good, we can't wait for it to begin to celebrate. We allow ourselves to start to celebrate a little early. I don't think that is entirely a bad thing either. After all, is it really possible to contain all the joy and love that Christmas represents in a 12 day festival? The other evening, I watched "A Christmas Carol" with my sister-in-law Lorraine and was intrigued by the use of the word 'come' in the Christmas morning scene when Scrooge had learned his lesson about celebrating and keeping Christmas. In the Disney movie, the carolers are singing "Joy to the world, the Lord is come" because it is finally Christmas. The waiting is over, the celebrations begin, the earth rejoices, and on that first day of Christmas our true love gives us a partridge in a pear tree.

But for now it's still Advent. Time to wait for what is coming. Time to prepare. Two more Sundays to light the Advent wreath. Today is December 5th and that almost 20 more days of opening little cardboard doors on daily Advent calendars to see what is behind them. Almost twenty more days of pinning little ornaments to the daily Advent calendar. Almost three more weeks of waiting for what is to come. And no one ever said waiting was easy - especially when we are excited about what is coming.

Waiting for Christmas each year is hard. It's hard on kids excited to see what gifts Santa is going to put under the tree. It's hard on adults wondering if the expectations for the holiday will be met. It's especially hard on those of us who have lost a loved one when we realize that this year we won't be celebrating with someone we've loved deeply and we suddenly miss that person with agonizing acuteness that threatens to deaden the whole holiday. But Advent calls us to wait for what is coming. But it doesn't ask us to wait passively; it calls us to wait expectantly. Appropriately, each stanza of today's hymn captures the excruciating labor of waiting for extraordinarily wondrous Emmanuel - the 'God who is with us' - that is still to come.

O Come, O Come, Emmanuel, and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here until the Son of God appear

Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel, shall come to thee, O Israel.

O Come, thou Wisdom from on high, and order all things far and nigh;
to us the path of knowledge show and cause us in her ways to go.

O Come, O Come, great Lord of might, who to thy tribes on Sinai’s height
in ancient times once gave the law in cloud and majesty and awe

O Come thou Root of Jesse’s tree, an ensign of the people be;
before thee rulers silent fall; all peoples on they mercy call.

O Come, thou Key of David, come, and open wide our heavenly home.
The captives from their prison free, and conquer death’s deep misery.

O come, thou Dayspring, come and cheer our spirits by thy justice here;
disperse the gloomy clouds of night, and death’s dark shadows put to flight.

O come, Desire of nations bind all peoples in one heard and mind.
From dust thou brought us forth to life; deliver us from earthly strife.

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Last minute thought

Squash casserole made from the summer garden and frozen in blocks is what goes with dinner tonight. Trust me, it tastes a lot better than it looks. Otherwise, we wouldn't spend hours in the summer making what takes minutes to take out freezer to defrost and then heat up in the microwave or the oven when the garden can't produce. It's the best side dish we have all winter long - unfortunately when it is a last minute thought it just doesn't look its best.

Friday, December 3, 2010

TGIF!

It's Friday night and I got to go to dinner with three of my favorite people in all the world! It's a near perfect ending to a very long week in front of a computer screen. The evening promises to only get better when my sister-in-law and I inaugurate the Christmas movie viewing season watching the only version of "A Christmas Carol" I ever watched in its entirety. Lorraine hasn't ever seen a version she didn't like, though her preferential favorite is the 1951 version with Alastair Sim. She's put up with having to watch her favorite Christmas ghost story on her own since she married my brother - because he's as big a fan of Charles Dickens as I am. And if you read my post yesterday, you already know how I feel about that author. But, last year, things changed, when in a moment of weakness, I agreed to go see the Disney animated version with Jim Carrey and I actually enjoyed the whole production. So, this year, she purchased it on DVD and we are going to enjoy watching it this evening - maybe we'll manage to get my brother to watch us with it too.....

Thursday, December 2, 2010

My BBC book list

I’ve been tagged several times on Facebook in regards to this note and I decided that if tagged once more, I’d make it into a blog entry. In the last 24 hours, I was tagged by two people who knew the co-reader with whom I enjoyed #94. So, I’ve tweaked the rules and included my reader reaction and discuss the friends, family and/or teachers in school with whom I associate the books. Since books really can be like a good friend, I figured it was appropriate. Because it is a photo blog, I’ve managed to get pictures of some the books I do own (and could find easily).

My gripe about the list is that Austen’s and Dickens’ books are parsed out instead of being included as a complete set of works. Why then clump all of Rowling’s and Shakespeare’s? And why list the Chronicles of Narnia and then single out Lion Witch and the Wardrobe? There are other books I think should have been included, maybe an Agatha Christie or two (or all of them, I read them all over 5 summers at summer camp as a waterfront counselor) and more detective fiction or espionage thrillers as well as the children's classic, A Wrinkle in Time, as well as....well, obviously I could go on and on with my critique of the list, but I'll stop now. So, here are the instructions for those of you not familiar with the rules about “The List”:

"The BBC believes most people will have read only 6 of the 100 books listed here. Instructions: Copy this into your notes. Bold those books you've read in their entirety, and italicize the ones you started but didn't finish- or read an excerpt. Tag other book nerds. Tag me as well so I can see your responses!"


1 Pride and Prejudice – Jane Austen Read it, watched every filmed version ever made, and purchased my very own copy of Penguin’s edition Jane Austin’s collection one afternoon while in London, England because I felt it was the quintessential English souvenir that was not only practical, but enjoyable for years to come….hello, Colin Firth is on the cover!!!

2 The Lord of the Rings – JRR Tolkien My copies are the paperback editions that came out prior to the movies a few years ago and I donated them to the paperback book rack at the pool this summer. Yes, I read it before I saw the movies, but that was mostly because I wouldn’t go see the movies without reading the books and I loved The Hobbit as a kid.

3 Jane Eyre – Charlotte Bronte I had a yellow paged paperback that I purchased after I fell in love with the story when I read it in Mr. Dean’s 7th grade English class. I might have donated it to the pool this summer.

4 Harry Potter series – JK Rowling (ALL 7) uhm, yeah - see my entry on November 21 if you have any questions.

5 To Kill a Mockingbird – Harper Lee Read it last winter for the very first time. Have seen the movie in various 38 minute bites when I worked at S. Plainfield High School and had to cover English classes on my prep period (because we didn’t have substitutes enough to cover for teachers who were absent)

6 The Bible Yes, I’ve read it. I even own several translations. Some include a copy of the New International Version my Nana got me when I graduated college that I typically use for daily devotions, a New Interpreters Study in New Revised Standard Version I got while at St. James, I often use for Bible Study teaching, a thinline NIV embossed with my name I use in the pulpit, a NRSV I used throughout seminary highlighted with class notes and devotionals from professors, a Devotional Classics version I picked up along the way and a thinline Today's NIV in a three toned faux leather cover. My Wesley Study Bible (NRSV) is my most recent purchase because I am Methodist and I know several contributors as well as two of the editors were Sunday School teachers I had in Lexington, KY. I also own a version of The Message and a copy of the Good News Bible - love those illustrations!

7 Wuthering Heights – Emily Bronte No longer own a copy, but I used to. Might have fallen apart. Remember Mr. Dean was very hesitant when Charlotte Mosher and/or another classmate and I decided we would read it as our first Independent Reading book in 7th grade. Made us draw a character map to keep things plot and characters straight. Loved it.

8 Nineteen Eighty Four – George Orwell Don’t own a copy, never wanted to - but I read it long before I graduated high school in 1984. I actually attended a "1984" conference at S. Plainfield High School in 1983 as a high school Jr. for history class. The high school was 'revolutionary' for its 'open space classrooms' that were eventually closed up in all departments by the time I ended up teaching there ten years later. Guess what department remained open space? Yes, that was the science department, the one I taught in! They couldn't conform to fire code with walls in that area so we always had such great fun on lab days (and yes, I am being sarcastic about that happy teaching experience).

9 His Dark Materials – Philip Pullman

10 Great Expectations Charles Dickens I am so not a fan of Dickens that I have only read parts under duress.

11 Little Women – Louisa M Alcott There's the pink paperback copy I had as a kid! Loved it. Read it over and over and over. Surprised there are still words on the page - I might have worn them off in reading it! Can still remember the line illustrations without looking at them and no actor has ever played Frederick Behr well in my opinion. Neither has any movie version done the book and characters justice….especially the most poignant scenes with Beth.

12 Tess of the D’Urbervilles Thomas Hardy I’ve read portions of this book when I stay at the Shive B&B. But more recently, since they’ve become grandparents, their daughter Amy’s books have been stashed away out of the main guest room for current bookshelf selections along the lines of Dr. Seuss and Mother Goose.

13 Catch 22 Joseph Heller Read this in Mr. Dean’s class. Another reason why I love Bob Newhart

14 Complete Works of Shakespeare Oh, dear. The high school teacher I had for 3 semesters was named Mrs. Milton and her fav was Shakespeare. In our high school we had to read a Shakespeare play each year of English - so that was four without trying or being in the electives I had. Before I graduated I know I read all of the comedies.

15 Rebecca – Daphne Du Maurier

16 The Hobbit – JRR Tolkien I simply love the watercolor on my paperback copy. No illustrations in this text, but Tolkien's words adequately tell the story in vivid detail.

17 Birdsong – Sebastian Faulks

19 The Time Traveller’s Wife – Audrey Niffenegger

20 Middlemarch – George Eliot

21 Gone With the Wind – Margaret Mitchell Yes, I know I read it in middle school before the movie premiered on television.

22 The Great Gatsby – F Scott Fitzgerald Read it, help students on home instruction with it, and I hate the book. I know I will get flack for that. I don't care. It has got to be one of the most depressing stories ever…..and Robert Redford does not help make it more palatable.

23 Bleak House – Charles Dickens I italicized this because I managed to listen to it on audiotape….I tried watching it with Gillian Anderson, but I have a hard time (get it!?!) with anything Dickens wrote.

24 War and Peace – Leo Tolstoy I thought it was important to read the book but I couldn't get through it and found something else more interesting to read on my own.

25 The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy – Douglas Adams I have vague memories of someone reading this aloud from the book. I know I only read the parts that I didn't hear be preformed.

26 Brideshead Revisited – Evelyn Waugh Bought this in high school with some friends because Anthony Andrews production was going to be on PBS. Who knew Jeremy Irons would totally eclipse him over the years….reread it one or two summers ago - but haven’t bothered to see the new picture….I was told it was a waste of time by Tina Fox. I highly value her literary opinion since we are in agreement about all things Harry Potter.

27 Crime and Punishment – Fyodor Dostoyevsky

28 Grapes of Wrath – John Steinbeck

29 Alice in Wonderland – Lewis Carroll Actually read it as a kid, juvenile versions and the unabridged version a few years later.

30 The Wind in the Willows – Kenneth Grahame Read this for the first time a few years ago tutoring a 6th grader. Wonder why/how I missed it as a kid!

31 Anna Karenina – Leo Tolstoy

32 David Copperfield – Charles Dickens must I really tell you why?


33 Chronicles of Narnia – CS Lewis (All 7) Yes, first read in 6th grade and the proper order to read them in is in the order they were originally published, NOT according to Narnia chronology as Harper Collins insists on publishing. My hardcover copies are courtesy a small group Bible study I lead at St. James. I've given copies to several children I know and love. They Chronicles are not the only CS Lewis books I like or have read - the rest of the shelf is normally devoted to CS Lewis (I just stuck on my Lucy Maude Montgomery books for this photo.).

34 Emma – Jane Austen See #1.

35 Persuasion – Jane Austen See #1

36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe – CS Lewis D’oh, see #33!!

37 The Kite Runner – Khaled Hosseini

38 Captain Corelli’s Mandolin – Louis De Berniere

39 Memoirs of a Geisha – Arthur Golden

40 Winnie the Pooh – AA Milne I think we all read this book when we were counselors at Camp Lou Henry Hover

41 Animal Farm – George Orwell I had already read 1984 and just didn’t enjoy it enough to finish it.

42 The Da Vinci Code – Dan Brown Read it as I prepared to leave St. James UMC and head back to graduate school. A parishioner abhorred the book and was happy to give me her copy. Interesting and light fluff. I gave the book away soon after I read it too. Could have skipped the movie.

43 One Hundred Years of Solitude – Gabriel Garcia Marquez

44 A Prayer for Owen Meaney – John Irving I think I read every one of Irving’s novels in college. I think I donated 4 different novels of his to the pool this summer.

45 The Woman in White – Wilkie Collins

46 Anne of Green Gables – LM Montgomery Long before Megan Follows perfectly incarnated the role, I read all of the Anne series. My ideal vacation would take me to Prince Edward Island and I think my favorite book of Montgomery's is The Story Girl.

47 Far From The Madding Crowd – Thomas Hardy

48 The Handmaid’s Tale – Margaret Atwood So depressing I couldn’t get halfway through it.

49 Lord of the Flies – William Golding A required read in Mr. Lindbergh’s sophomore English class. I own a copy because I lost the classroom copy and then found it later in the year, but couldn't find it for the photo. Mr. Lindbergh told me to keep it and read it now and again and see what new themes I’d see. I did reread it in college and then again once more, but haven't cracked it open in years. I still remember that he introduced me to the term microcosm when presenting the book.

50 Atonement – Ian McEwan

51 Life of Pi – Yann Martel

52 Dune – Frank Herbert some guy I crushed on in high school was reading it and before I could finish the book my interests in him moved on....consequently so did my interest in finishing the book.

53 Cold Comfort Farm – Stella Gibbons

54 Sense and Sensibility – Jane Austen See #1

55 A Suitable Boy – Vikram Seth

56 The Shadow of the Wind – Carlos Ruiz Zafon

57 A Tale Of Two Cities – Charles Dickens Ahh, it’s Charlie - do I have to tell you how I really feel about him?

58 Brave New World – Aldous Huxley

59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time – Mark Haddon

60 Love In The Time Of Cholera – Gabriel Garcia Marquez

61 Of Mice and Men – John Steinbeck I know I read it, but can’t remember when or where or for whose class it might have been. Don’t like watching movies because it is too heart-wrenching.

62 Lolita – Vladimir Nabokov

63 The Secret History – Donna Tartt

64 The Lovely Bones – Alice Sebold

65 Count of Monte Cristo – Alexandre Dumas I am sure I read this in 8th grade and I am certain it was a blue hardcover book.

66 On The Road – Jack Kerouac

67 Jude the Obscure – Thomas Hardy

68 Bridget Jones’s Diary – Helen Fielding My friend Diane Coffin sent me this book when I was in seminary. It was literally nightstand reading I would do before nodding off - funniest book I've read as an adult and I really did laugh out loud a few times. Loved it so much I pre-ordered "Edge of Reason" but don't seem to currently have that book on my shelf.

69 Midnight’s Children – Salman Rushdie

70 Moby Dick – Herman Melville Middle school required reading - Call me Ishmael….ugh.

71 Oliver Twist – Charles Dickens First Dickens’ book I’ve read all the way through. I hated it on the printed page but don’t mind the musical so much.

72 Dracula – Bram Stoker

73 The Secret Garden – Frances Hodgson Burnett I've owned my green paper back copy since childhood. Took me forever to get through the first 3-4 chapters. But I LOVE IT!!! So disappointed to find out it was already given to my niece by someone else.

74 Notes From A Small Island – Bill Bryson

75 Ulysses – James Joyce

76 The Bell Jar – Sylvia Plath

77 Swallows and Amazons – Arthur Ransome

78 Germinal – Emile Zola

79 Vanity Fair – William Makepeace Thackeray

80 Possession – AS Byatt

81 A Christmas Carol – Charles Dickens Because of my sister-in-law’s love affair with the many movie versions, I decided to read it last year (and she realized she didn’t own a copy, so I read the one I bought her before giving it to her Christmas Day! now she knows!) My brother and I both hate the story. Mom thought she was doing us a favor by making us watch the t.v. version with George C. Scott, but we already hated it. Until last year, I’d never seen a single movie all the way through. Maybe because it was animated and I even though I am not normally a Jim Carrey fan, I agreed to go see it with her last year. It not only was the first Dicken's work I found palatable, I actually thought it was impressive and it did motivate me to finally read the story.

82 Cloud Atlas – David Mitchell

83 The Color Purple – Alice Walker

84 The Remains of the Day – Kazuo Ishiguro

85 Madame Bovary – Gustave Flaubert

86 A Fine Balance – Rohinton Mistry

87 Charlotte’s Web – EB White I am listing this as half-read, though I am sure I read it. Maybe my 4th grade teacher, Mrs. Lebanon read it out loud to the class. Makes me cry whenever I see a beautiful spider web.

88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven – Mitch Albom Read it during my hospital chaplain internship as well as Tuesdays with Morrie by the same author. I think the latter is far better than the former.

89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes – Sir Arthur Conan Doyle (ALL of them) No - but as I mentioned before, I've read all of Agatha Christie's books as well as the entire collection of Jack Higgins, Ken Follett, Tom Clancy and Colin Dexter - all superior thrillers and detective stories.

90 The Faraway Tree Collection – Enid Blyton

91 Heart of Darkness – Joseph Conrad

92 The Little Prince – Antoine De Saint-Expery Yes, I read it. Even have covered a French class reading it in French.

93 The Wasp Factory – Iain Banks

94 Watership Down – Richard Adams Read this book in middle/high school on my own. My granddad actually started reading it over my shoulder when I sat with him on his big La-Z-Boy. He got a kick out of the rabbits (he trained beagles) and he wanted the book when I was done reading it. It was so much fun watching him read that book!

95 A Confederacy of Dunces – John Kennedy Toole

96 A Town Like Alice – Nevil Shute

97 The Three Musketeers – Alexandre Dumas Pretty sure read in tandem with Count of Monte Cristo in middle school

98 Hamlet – William Shakespeare Read in high school - maybe in Jr. year?

99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory – Roald Dahl Yes, but couldn’t tell you when or why.

100 Les Miserables – Victor Hugo Read in advance when I thought I would be taking a required class in moral development in seminary. Later got waived out of the class because of my education background!!! Glad I read it though!


My total? Of the list the BBC provides, I've read 40 completely and 11 partial (didn't bother to count how many of them were books by Dickens). In my own public school education, I had to read more than a half dozen of them and I've picked up a few more because of the tutoring I do. So, I guess I would have been well read just by sticking with what was taught in school!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Daily Advent Calendar!

Yes, it's a little faded and getting dilapidated. And maybe by next year, my niece and I will have made a new one. However, for the time being, the felt Advent calendar I made when I was a teenager will be pressed into service for at least one more year.

And as is tradition, the star goes up first. However, if it goes missing in the next 23 days, I'll know my dad is enjoying his own tradition of hiding the star until Christmas Eve.